Can you stop one person from seeing your active on Messenger?

Facebook may be responsible for putting the word "social" in social media, but there are times when you don't want — or don't have time — to engage with friends.

If you want to log into Facebook without your friends knowing you're online, you can easily turn off your "active status" so you appear offline.

There are three different places where you can control your active status: on Facebook in a web browser, in the Facebook mobile app, and in the Facebook Messenger mobile app.

How to turn off active status on Facebook in a web browser

To turn off active status and appear offline on Facebook:

1. Open Facebook in a browser and log in, if you're not already.

2. Click the circular Messenger icon in the top-right corner.

Screenshot of Facebook with Messenger icon highlighted.

Click on the Messenger icon in the corner.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

3. Click the three-dot icon at the top of the Messenger drop down.

Screenshot of Facebook with the Messenger options button highlighted.

Click the three-dot icon at the top of the Messenger sidebar.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

4. Click Turn off Active Status in the drop-down menu.

Screenshot of Facebook Messenger with the Turn off Active Status option highlighted.

Select the "Turn off Active Status" option.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

5. A pop-up will appear asking if you want to Turn off Active Status for all contacts, Turn off Active Status for all contacts except, or Turn off Active Status for only some contacts. When you click the latter two options, a box will appear where you can enter the names of specific people.

Screenshot of the Active Status menu with the options highlighted.

Choose who you want to hide your active status from.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

6. Click OK when you're done.

Note: You can also do this by clicking the Messenger icon in the top-right corner and clicking See all in Messenger at the bottom of the drop-down menu. Then, on the full-screen Messenger page, click the three-dot icon in the top-left corner, choose Preferences, click Turn off Active Status in the pop-up, and choose your active status.

How to turn off active status in the Facebook mobile app

1. Open the Facebook app on your phone.

2. Tap the three horizontal lines (called the "hamburger menu") in the top-right corner on Android or the bottom-right corner on iPhone.

Screenshot of the Facebook mobile app hamburger menu.

Tap the icon of three horizontal lines.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

3. Tap Settings & Privacy, and then tap Settings.

Screenshot of the Facebook settings menu in the app.

Tap "Settings" in the "Settings & Privacy" drop-down.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

4. Tap Active Status under the Privacy section.

Screenshot of the Active Status option in the Privacy section.

Select "Active Status" at the bottom of the "Privacy" section.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

5. Turn off Show when you're active by moving the slider to the left and then confirm by tapping Turn Off in the pop-up.

Screenshot of the Active Status menu with the Turn Off option highlighted.

After swiping the slider to the left, select "Turn Off" in the pop-up.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

How to turn off active status in the Facebook Messenger mobile app

1. Open the Facebook Messenger app on your phone.

2. Tap your profile's avatar at the top-left of the screen.

Screenshot of the Messenger app with the profile avatar highlighted.

Tap your profile icon in the upper-left corner.Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

3. Tap Active Status.

Screenshot of the Active Status option in Messenger.

Select "Active Status."Grace Eliza Goodwin/Insider

4. Turn off Show when you're active by moving the slider to the left and then confirm by tapping Turn Off in the pop-up.

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Can you turn off active status for one person?

4. Click Turn off Active Status in the drop-down menu. 5. A pop-up will appear asking if you want to Turn off Active Status for all contacts, Turn off Active Status for all contacts except, or Turn off Active Status for only some contacts.

How do you remove someone from showing active on Messenger?

Click on the Settings or Cog icon at the bottom of your Messenger chat box as shown below. 2. Click on "Turn Off Active Status" option. 3.

How do I stop someone from seeing Im active on Facebook?

Updated mobile browser experience.
Tap in the top right of Facebook..
Tap Settings..
Tap Active Status..
Tap next to Show when you're active..
Tap Turn off to confirm if prompted..